Children & Teens

At St Mary’s we warmly welcome children of all ages and their families to our church family. There is so much on offer, ranging from a Toddler Group to a Sunday Club, from All Together Services to special events (as well as much more!). We want to ensure that children and their families are a fundamental part of our worship and at the heart of our church. Our aim is to nurture, encourage exploration of, and provide enrichment of, Christian faith through our services and groups, which are specifically designed for these ages.

Here are our key dates for Sundays up to Easter 2023. We hope to see you at church. 

Please do keep an eye on out on this page and in the newsletter for special activities and events.


Sunday 8th January 2023  Epiphany All Together Service. Join us at 10am for our first All Together Service of this year.
Sunday 15th January 2023 Sunday Club returns
Sunday 22nd January 2023 Sunday Club
Sunday 29th January 2023  Candlemas All Together Service
Sunday 5th February 2023 Sunday Club
Sunday 12th February 2023 Half Term – Activity Sheets & Colouring
Sunday 19th February 2023 Half Term – Activity Sheets & Colouring
Sunday 26th February 2023 All Together Service
Sunday 5th March 2023 Sunday Club
Sunday 12th March 2023 Sunday Club
Sunday 19th March 2023  Mothering Sunday All Together Service
Sunday 26th March 2023 Sunday Club

Sunday 2nd April 2023  Palm Sunday

Procession with donkey from Kitson Hall at 9.45am

Sunday Club & making Easter Gardens
Sunday 9th April Easter Day All Together Service followed by an Easter Egg Hunt

Our Youth Worker

Julie Smith 

I am delighted to have taken on the role of Youth Worker at St Mary’s Barnes. Many of you will already know me as a familiar face about Barnes. My husband, Joel, and I live in the village and worship at St Mary’s with our three teenage children, Charis, Imogen and Caleb, who have all attended various local schools. If any of you are involved with Guiding in Barnes you may also recognise me as “Tawny Owl” and the Ranger leader.

Apart from working closely with James and Jackie in relation to the babies, toddlers and primary aged children at church, I am particularly excited to be developing the provision for teens within our congregation.

At St Mary’s we value everyone in the church family and are minded of the message found in 1 Timothy vv4:12:

“Do not let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”

If you would like to be involved in our Youth Club, or know of anyone who might be interested, do contact me on [email protected] or leave a message at church office.

Our Children & Families' Worker

Jackie Davis

I joined the team in February 2020 and it has been wonderful getting to know the whole church community, especially the children who bring such energy and inspired thinking about their faith.

Within my role, I am able to work both within the church as well as within the local area offering outreach where opportunity presents.

I work particularly closely with Julie, our youth worker, to ensure that we can support children on their journey of faith from the very early years, right through to adulthood.

If you would like to know more about our work with children and families, I would be delighted to hear from you. Please do email: [email protected] or alternatively contact me via the church office.


Faith for Children & Teens


Baptisms normally take place once a month on Sunday at 11.45am, usually with two or more children. It is a full service with hymns, reading, address, prayers, as well as the baptism. To help prepare for a child’s baptism service, parents are invited to a a meeting beforehand. Read more about baptism at St Mary’s.

First Communion

Each year between 12 and 18 children aged seven to eleven years take their First Communion, the majority being 7 to 9 years old.
To prepare children for admission to First Communion we run about six weekly sessions after school. Read more about First Communion at St Mary’s.


The Confirmation service gives the opportunity for adults and young people to become full members of the Church of England.
It is called Confirmation because in the service each candidate “confirms” for themselves the promises that were made on their behalf at their baptism.




St. Mary’s Barnes is committed to ensuring everyone can worship, learn and work in a safe environment.

View details, see who the Parish Safeguarding Officers are and link to the Diocese and other safeguarding sites.

Church Trail

Find out more about our historic church with the Children’s Trail, devised in association with NADFAS . Available to download here or pick up a printed copy at the back of the church, near the main door.

St Mary's Barnes Scout Group

cropped-Sd00588048_00001_1St. Mary Barnes Scout Group was founded in the early 1920s. The Group amalgamated with the Barn Elms Scout Group (which had already amalgamated some years earlier with the Holy Trinity Sea Scout Group) in the 1980s. It is now the only Scout Group in Barnes. The Group was once based at the Church Hall in Kitson Road, but following the amalgamation, they moved to their present HQ in Queen Elizabeth Walk.

St. Mary Barnes Scout Group is sponsored by St. Mary Barnes Church. It is not a “closed” Group and members of the Group are not expected to be members of the Church. However, all members of the Group are expected to attend Church Parades, unless they have a simultaneous commitment at another church, or, belong to a religious organisation, membership of which is incompatible with attendance at an Anglican Church.